The Complete Moving Guide

Everything They
Don't Tell You

From the moment you search online to the day the truck arrives: what should happen, and what's actually happening behind closed doors. The "From the Inside" notes throughout this guide are drawn from conversations with people who worked in sales, dispatch, and operations across the industry.

Section 0 · Before The First Call: How They Got Your Number
✓ How It Should Go

When you search for moving quotes online, you should be clearly informed about who you are sharing your information with. The FMCSA recommends getting at least three written estimates from companies you independently researched, not companies that called you out of nowhere.

Start your research at protectyourmove.gov and use the FMCSA company search tool to find licensed movers in your area.

✗ What's Actually Happening

Most online quote forms are not moving companies. They are lead generation sites. Their business is collecting your information and selling it. The moment you hit submit, your name, phone number, email, and move details are distributed to a large number of brokers and carriers instantly.

Within minutes your phone starts ringing from companies you never contacted. Leads move through informal channels like group chats and messaging apps. Even after you book with someone, the calls don't stop. Other brokers will keep trying to flip you because whoever books you gets paid.

  • Treat every unsolicited call as a cold call, because it is
  • Being called after you booked is intentional. They want you to switch
  • The first company to reach you will be aggressive. That's by design
Section 1 · The First Call: How Brokers Work
✓ How It Should Go

Federal law requires brokers to clearly identify themselves as brokers, not carriers, before taking any payment. They must provide a written estimate, a copy of your rights under federal law, and a clear explanation of their cancellation policy.

Always verify any company before booking:
Look up their DOT number at safer.fmcsa.dot.gov. This shows their registration, whether they are a broker or carrier, insurance status, and safety record.

Verify licensing and active authority at the FMCSA Licensing Search. Ask the rep for their DOT number upfront. They are required to provide it.

  • Ask: "Are you a broker or a carrier?"
  • Ask for their DOT number and verify it before paying anything
  • Ask specifically about the cancellation policy before signing
  • Read the full contract. Do not rely on what the rep says
✗ What's Actually Happening

The person on that call is a commissioned sales rep. They earn a percentage of the deposit they collect. No deposit means no pay. That pressure means they will say whatever is needed to book the job.

The 10-day trap: Some reps book you under a pickup date within 10 business days, even if your real move is weeks away. This classifies the move as "last minute" and makes your deposit non-refundable immediately. You may be told it's just a "floating reservation." It is not.

"We use our own trucks": Some brokers claim to be carriers too. After your cancellation window closes, you get a call: truck broke down, had to assign another company. Always verify carrier authority on the FMCSA database.

  • Treat the call like buying a car, not asking a neighbor for help
  • Ask what date you're being booked under and what it means for cancellation
  • Moves priced by cubic feet are harder to verify than weight. Remember this
  • The contract is long and the rep will rush through it. Read it yourself
From The Inside

"Everyone on the sales floor says they're the dispatcher, or that they work with the trucks. It's a line to book the job. The person you're talking to has never touched a truck."

Former industry insider, sales
Section 2 · After You Book: What Happens to Your Job
✓ How It Should Go

Federal law (49 CFR § 375.505) gives customers on interstate moves a 72-hour window to cancel and receive a full refund. Florida's Chapter 507 covers in-state moves similarly. You should receive written confirmation, your estimate, and your cancellation policy clearly stated. Carriers are legally required to provide you with the FMCSA Rights and Responsibilities guide before your move.

  • Your 72-hour cancellation window starts at booking. Use it to re-read your contract
  • Confirm what date you were booked under in writing
  • When you receive your carrier assignment, look them up immediately at safer.fmcsa.dot.gov
✗ What's Actually Happening

Within the 72-hour window, customer service is careful not to say too much. Questions get deflected back to the sales rep. The priority is making sure you don't cancel before the deposit locks in. After 72 hours, the rep disappears and customer service takes over.

The QA call: You'll receive a "quality assurance" call, framed as confirming your inventory. Its real purpose is to increase your cubic footage estimate and pull more money from you. By this point your cancellation window is long closed. You are not obligated to add anything to your estimate.

"Guaranteed price": Only the price per cubic foot is guaranteed, not the total. If the carrier says your stuff takes up more space, the bill goes up.

  • During the QA call, only confirm what is already on your inventory
  • The carrier who shows up may be a company you've never heard of. This is normal and legal
  • If your carrier assignment surprises you, verify their DOT before moving day
From The Inside

When no carrier wants your job: People who have worked in dispatch describe what happens when a job is priced too low for any carrier to take it. Rather than eat the loss, some brokers pressure the customer into canceling, using estimate language that says dates are "not guaranteed," so the broker keeps the deposit.

The deposit split: The broker is generally supposed to keep about 30% of your deposit, with the rest going toward the carrier's payment. Insiders across multiple companies report brokers routinely keeping 50–60%, leaving barely enough for a carrier to service the job. That shortfall is a major reason your price gets "bumped" later.

Section 3 · Before Pickup: The Setup
✓ How It Should Go

The carrier receives a complete Bill of Lading (BOL), the legal contract governing your move. It must include the legal names and DOT numbers of all carriers involved, your full inventory, all charges, and every service agreed upon. Brokers are required to use carriers with active operating authority. You have the right to verify your assigned carrier independently using the FMCSA Moving Checklist.

  • Look up your assigned carrier's DOT at safer.fmcsa.dot.gov before moving day
  • Review your full inventory list and flag anything wrong before pickup
  • Get your confirmed pickup window in writing
✗ What's Actually Happening

Brokers are supposed to vet every carrier. Many do not. Jobs are often sourced through informal channels, the same group chats used for leads. Legally a carrier only needs an active DOT to accept a job. But some brokers hand jobs to carriers without verifying the DOT is current. Some carriers operate with expired or revoked authority, and the customer bears the risk.

  • Verify your carrier's DOT before moving day, not after
  • If the carrier that shows up doesn't match your paperwork, ask questions before letting them touch anything
  • The BOL is your contract. Review it carefully before signing at pickup
From The Inside

How carriers are really found: Dispatch works its own network first, then referrals from carriers already in that network. When nothing turns up, jobs get posted to industry group chats on messaging apps. How carefully a new carrier gets vetted (insurance, reviews, complaint history) varies enormously from company to company and from dispatcher to dispatcher.

The pricing squeeze: When a sales rep underprices a job to book it, dispatch has to find a carrier cheap enough to make the math work. Cheaper carriers, not better carriers.

"You always have a range of carriers, from the ones that do great work to the ones that take the jobs no one else wants. And sometimes those are the only ones available."

Former industry insider, dispatch

What actually gets a carrier flagged internally: Not price increases, delivery delays, or routine damage claims. Inside the industry those are treated as normal complaints. What gets attention is customers reporting threats, major damage with photos, and repeated patterns of the same problem.

Section 4 · Moving Day: Pickup
✓ How It Should Go

The carrier should do a full walkthrough before loading anything to confirm inventory. If charges beyond the original estimate are necessary, they must provide a revised written estimate before loading begins. Federal law caps charges at delivery: no more than 110% of a non-binding estimate. Accessorial services (long carry, stairs, bulky items) should have been disclosed before your move date. See full rules at 49 CFR Part 375.

  • Ask for a written revised estimate before agreeing to any price change
  • Ask how the new cubic footage was calculated if the number changed
  • Do not let loading begin until you are satisfied with what you are signing
✗ What's Actually Happening

The driver's walkthrough is not just an inventory check. They are looking for every legitimate reason to add a charge. This is where the carrier makes their money, especially if the broker underpaid them for the job.

Common charges added at pickup: additional cubic feet, packing services, long carry fee (over 75 feet), stairs fee (each flight after the first), bulky item fee (fridges, top-load washers/dryers, large safes, oversized dressers, at the driver's discretion).

If you refuse the new price: you can leave items behind, accept it, or cancel. If you cancel, the broker tells you the deposit is non-refundable. Most customers feel trapped and move forward. That position is not an accident.

  • Ask about all accessorial fees before moving day and get a full written list at booking
  • If you have stairs, a long carry, or large appliances, ask about those charges upfront
  • Major national carriers tend to operate more transparently than smaller independents
From The Inside

The two problems that dominate everything else: Across sales, dispatch, and customer service, insiders name the same two issues as the most common source of conflict: cost increases at pickup, and customers who were never told the real delivery timeframe.

When the driver calls in asking for more money: The standard practice is to allow a "reasonable" bump without much scrutiny. Real pushback, meaning demands for photos and documentation of the extra volume or services, typically only happens when the customer disputes the charge. Translation: dispute it, and ask for proof in writing.

Section 5 · In Transit: The Gray Zone
✓ How It Should Go

Federal regulations set clear delivery windows based on distance. Carriers must deliver within those windows or notify you in advance. If a carrier misses the window, file a complaint at protectyourmove.gov or call FMCSA at 1-888-368-7238.

Delivery windows by distance:
Under 500 miles: 2–5 days  |  500–1,000 miles: 3–7 days
1,000–2,000 miles: 7–14 days  |  2,000+ miles: 10–21 days
Legal maximum: 21 business days / 30 days from pickup

  • Get your exact delivery window in writing before pickup
  • Ask the carrier who to call during transit and what their update process is
  • If the carrier misses the window, report it at protectyourmove.gov
✗ What's Actually Happening

Most customers are told on the sales call that delivery takes 1 to 7 days. That is not accurate for most long distance moves and the rep knows it. Once the deposit is locked in, the rep is no longer accountable.

There is no tracking. Once the truck leaves your driveway, there is no app, no link, and no real-time visibility. You are dependent on calling the broker or carrier for updates.

Free storage truth: Storage is sold as "near your delivery destination." In reality it goes to the closest facility to your pickup location. You will not have access to it. You cannot retrieve individual items. You won't see your belongings again until delivery.

  • If storage is part of your move, ask exactly where it will be stored, near pickup or delivery
  • You have no access to your belongings while in storage
  • Expect delivery to take longer than the sales rep told you
From The Inside

What the angry calls are about: People who worked the phones after booking describe the same complaints again and again: cost increases, being switched to a different carrier and not finding out until the day before pickup, delivery timeframes far longer than promised, and long stretches of silence in between.

"The estimate is just a guess. Customers should be warned about the real delivery timeframe and everything that can raise the price. They almost never are."

Former industry insider, operations

Section 6 · Delivery Day
✓ How It Should Go

At delivery, the carrier presents a final invoice before unloading. The only additional charges allowed are legitimate accessorial services: long carry, stairs, or shuttle fees. You must be given the opportunity to inspect and note any damage before signing. Standard liability coverage is $0.60 per pound per article. Ask about full value protection before your move. Learn more at fmcsa.dot.gov/consumer-rights.

  • Review every charge on the invoice before signing
  • Photograph all damage before the crew leaves
  • File damage claims with the carrier's adjuster, not the broker
  • Ask about full value protection coverage before your move date
✗ What's Actually Happening

Shuttle fee: If an 18-wheeler can't reach your delivery location (narrow street, cul-de-sac, city neighborhood), the carrier rents a smaller truck and charges you $1.00–$2.00 per cubic foot. At the driver's discretion. Rarely disclosed in advance.

You sign and pay before they unload. Review everything before signing. Once you sign, disputing charges is significantly harder.

Reassembly: Carriers typically only put beds back together. Whatever else was disassembled will likely not be reassembled, for liability reasons. Get it in writing if it matters to you.

Damages: Standard coverage is $0.60 per pound per article. A 50-pound TV that cost $800 is covered for $30. The broker is not responsible for damages, only the carrier who took possession of your belongings.

Hostage load: A hostage load is when a carrier refuses to unload until you pay undisclosed charges not in your estimate. This is illegal, with penalties of up to $10,000 per day. Report it immediately at protectyourmove.gov.

  • Ask about shuttle fees before moving day if you live somewhere hard to access
  • $0.60/lb default coverage is not enough for most households. Upgrade before you move
  • If a carrier refuses to unload for undisclosed charges, it is illegal. Report it immediately.

Know where to go.

Every official resource you need, in one place.

What to check Where to go
Verify broker or carrier DOT number safer.fmcsa.dot.gov
Search for movers by company name FMCSA Company Search
Verify active licensing and authority FMCSA Licensing Search
Your full rights and responsibilities FMCSA Rights Guide
Moving checklist FMCSA Moving Checklist
File a complaint or report a hostage load protectyourmove.gov
FMCSA complaint hotline 1-888-368-7238

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